Now if you train your man to do these things, all the bad things will go away! You will then, wake up on a beach in Europe somewhere!
Maybe you can ask him to just whisper these in your ear. Let’s be realistic. Guys Mostly, Say the Wrong things, or Don’t know what to say at all. Here are all the things, Men “Should,” Be saying to us Beautiful, lovely Women.
- Your Goals are important. What is your goal for next week? Is the family vacation going to get in the way of that? Is our 3 nights in a row, entertaining or going out going to make that impossible? Is going to school important? Women need to not only see, that these are important, but hear it. Hearing, “Your goals are important.” is huge. This is epic to making both parties happy. Say it back!
- Your Right. How hard is it , to back down, and say it! Many men are allergic to this. As women, when we are discussing, brainstorming, collaborating, (Anything involving more than one person) we say it. As women, we care about the end result for everyone (our village) You are right! Say it! Say it Back!
- Tell me what the problem is. Sometimes we need to give our opinion. If they just ask, it means that your opinion is validated, and valued. Some relationships have this easily, others this is a distant island far, far away.
- I Love You! I love the things you do, the way you walk, the way you parallel park the car. I love those little things about you, that I used, to mention when we were dating. There are so many things about you that I love. Isn’t it good to hear that! I Know it! and Love it! (I love myself too! Awe!)